Your cellphone or laptop or whatever gadget you are hooked on to. It tells her that she is not as interesting or as attractive as that gadget to you. So when you’re with her give her your full attention, put away your phone or whatever and take the time to listen to her because it shows her that you’re interested in what she has to say or what she thinks. remember, she put time and effort in just to spend time with you, so cherish the time that you get to be with her, you know?